It's that time of year when I start thinking about New Year's Resolutions and examining what works and doesn't work in our routines (or lack of them) at home.
top ten things I want to accomplish each day.
One thing I struggle with is having a balance with the two children. I spent so much more time with Bear as a baby, reading to her, chatting with her, playing with her. I am guilty of often placing J-jo on the mat next to us and focusing all my attention on Bear. He's happy and satisfied, but my Momma heart feels like I am not doing my best with J-jo.
Here's my list:
1.
Quiet time with God every morning and night for at least ten minutes. I used to be so diligent about taking the time to read my Bible, pray and journal before I had Bear. Then, J-jo came along and I've given even less time to the one who has blessed me with all my earthly treasures (my husband and children, of course!). I think I can manage at least ten minutes, even if it means reading my Bible aloud to the baby as I did this morning.
2.
Meaningful time with my husband. It's so easy to put the kids first. I just want to make sure that my husband and I connect each day and have conversations not laced with kid talk.
3.
Morning prayer and Bible time with Bear (and J-jo if he isn't napping). It's really important to me that Bear gets into the habit of praying. We say grace and bedtime prayers, but I would like to add one more dimension to it. We have been reading her Bible daily since it arrived and I want to continue doing this, but I also want to read to her from the actual Bible occasionally.
4. Minimum of
20 minutes of reading to
each child. I probably already read this much to Bear if not more, but poor J-jo probably doesn't even know what a book is! (Kidding!) He joins us in Bear's read-alouds, but I need to read his books to him too (Bear has quite sophisticated taste in books for a two year old and I'm sure J-jo would much prefer Sandra Boynton to Jan Brett for example).
5. At least 20 minutes of
focused one-on-one time with each child. Again, Bear gets plenty of this, way more than 20 minutes, but J-jo gets the short end of the stick. It's my goal to do more "activities" with him (such as walk around the house and point things out to him, pick up an object and tell him about it, sing songs and nursery rhymes to him) on a more consistent basis.
6.
Daily outside time. This one has been very much neglected since the birth of the baby.
7. Reinstating
rest/nap time for Bear. I've succeeded in having her take naps a few days in the past week, and I need time to
blog plan and prepare her learning activities and spend time with J-jo if he happens not to be resting at the same time as Bear.
8. An
art, craft, or sensory activity each day. We definitely already do this between play dough and painting/drawing. It is very important and needs to be on the list so it doesn't get abandoned accidentally.
9. A
music activity daily. As a teacher in my previous (before children) life, I know the importance of music in children's lives. We sing a lot of songs and nursery rhymes together but I want to make sure we listen to a wider variety of music and play with Bear's instruments a bit more.
10.
Housekeeping chores (dishes, sweeping, you know...that horrible stuff I'd rather NOT do).
Maybe this will keep me from trying to accomplish so many things and feel like I am not getting any of them done!
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