Yes, we are trilingual, but in a bilingual sort of way. My husband speaks Spanish and English and I speak French and English (although I can understand Spanish, I only speak it moderately). So what do we speak to Bear? How do we teach her all three languages? Moreover, how do we teach her the alphabet, already a daunting task when addressing only one language.
My focus is English with me at home. Why? Well, to begin with, we live in a Spanish-speaking country; Bear gets to hear Spanish anytime we leave the house and anytime we have guests over. Moreover, her Daddy speaks to her 99 percent in Spanish. She understands that language, no problem.
My dilemma is with the French. Although it was my native tongue, years of disuse as a result of living in an English world, makes it not my first choice for thinking or speaking. How to get Bear to learn French and English when there is only one of me? (Experts suggest one parent speak in one language and the other parent speak in the other language 100 percent of the time.) To make matters worse, Bear only sees her French-speaking grandparents on rare occasions as they live halfway across the continent.)
I have been focusing on English for the alphabet. If we send Bear to school here, she will learn the Spanish alphabet in kindergarten and have a bit of exposure to it before that through her dad. If we decide to home school her, then I will formally introduce the Spanish to her around kindergarten anyway. Does a 2 year old really need to know the alphabet in three languages? My opinion is no. In fact, I don't believe that a 2 year old needs to know the alphabet period! But this isn't the place to get into that debate.
We read alphabet books in French and English. But when I talk about the alphabet and beginning sounds, I do it in English. When Bear gets older, say 3,4, or 5, she will be able to transfer her understanding of beginning sounds (and all other reading skills) to her other languages. I know this for a fact because I only spoke French until I was 8 years old, but as soon as I learned the English alphabet sounds, I was off and reading in English, as fluently as in French. I also taught in French immersion schools and saw this same transfer of skills there.
Nevertheless, as with all her other learning, I do start introducing it in French at some point. This post coincides with the week that I have decided to speak only in French every other day. Prior to this, I would speak English mostly and use French throughout the day. I now feel a need to increase the amount of French that Bear hears throughout the week. This is also to ensure Baby Boy hears enough French in his early years.
You can read more about how we have raised Bear in a trilingual environment here.
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Note: If any of you do teach French to your children, I'd love to know of the resources you use. Thanks!
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